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Ashleigh Lamberti

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January 7, 2020
Codependency Therapy
Ashleigh Lamberti
Navigating Narcissism and Grandiosity

A narcissistic personality is often “balanced” by a codependent personality. As mentioned above, narcissists are typically men. These men often marry codependent women. (I discuss codependency here on my blog.) Narcissists expect their partners to…

Navigating Narcissism and Grandiosity
Ashleigh Lamberti
September 8, 2025
Spiritual Counseling

Why ‘Just Do It’ Doesn’t Work With ADHD

Ashleigh Lamberti
September 8, 2025
Spiritual Counseling
Why ‘Just Do It’ Doesn’t Work With ADHD

For many people, getting things done can be as simple as deciding on a task and following through on it. But for individuals with ADHD, it’s not always that straightforward.

Ashleigh Lamberti
August 25, 2025
Couples Therapy

How to Rebalance a Relationship's Power Differentials

Ashleigh Lamberti
August 25, 2025
Couples Therapy
How to Rebalance a Relationship's Power Differentials

In most relationships, some form of power imbalance exists. This can occur with family members, friends, coworkers or romantic partnerships. But this is actually normal.

Ashleigh Lamberti
August 14, 2025
Codependency Therapy

What Is Trauma-Informed Care and What Does It Do?

Ashleigh Lamberti
August 14, 2025
Codependency Therapy
What Is Trauma-Informed Care and What Does It Do?

Trauma-informed care is a phrase that you've probably heard come up more often in recent years. You may have heard it come up regarding therapy, healthcare, education and maybe even in workplaces.

Ashleigh Lamberti
August 11, 2025
Codependency Therapy

How to Spot Codependency: 5 Warning Signs

Ashleigh Lamberti
August 11, 2025
Codependency Therapy
How to Spot Codependency: 5 Warning Signs

The word "codependent" has been used a lot in recent years. It may even feel like it's just another one of those therapy buzzwords that people throw around.

Ashleigh Lamberti
July 28, 2025
Codependency Therapy

What Is Complex Trauma and How Do You Spot It?

Ashleigh Lamberti
July 28, 2025
Codependency Therapy
What Is Complex Trauma and How Do You Spot It?

When you hear the word "trauma," what do you think of? You're probably thinking of one, singular traumatic life event like a car accident, violence or a natural disaster.

Ashleigh Lamberti
June 23, 2025
Codependency Therapy

What is Trauma-Informed Care and How Does it Help?

Ashleigh Lamberti
June 23, 2025
Codependency Therapy
What is Trauma-Informed Care and How Does it Help?

Life is hard. Even if you have your entire day planned out, you never really know what to expect. It's filled with a lot of unknowns, unpredictable moments and a ton of ups and downs along the way.

Ashleigh Lamberti
June 9, 2025
Spiritual Counseling

Five Tools To Soothe Your Nervous System

Ashleigh Lamberti
June 9, 2025
Spiritual Counseling
Five Tools To Soothe Your Nervous System

Today's world is fast-paced and constantly moving. Jobs used to be something to which you would commute, spend between 8am-5pm there and go home to your family.

Ashleigh Lamberti
May 26, 2025
Spiritual Counseling

The Far-Reaching Affects of Trauma within Families

Ashleigh Lamberti
May 26, 2025
Spiritual Counseling
The Far-Reaching Affects of Trauma within Families

Trauma is a type of emotional response that can occur from a stressful or disturbing event. Most events that happen during a day can be processed, and you can move on from them. Trauma tends to have long-lasting negative effects.

Ashleigh Lamberti
May 12, 2025
Couples Therapy

Understanding the Difference Between Codependency and Enmeshment

Ashleigh Lamberti
May 12, 2025
Couples Therapy
Understanding the Difference Between Codependency and Enmeshment

Relationships involve two people coming together as one. In healthy relationships, these two individuals can come together for one another and the relationship, but also maintain their own sense of independence and lives separate from their partner.

Ashleigh Lamberti
April 28, 2025
Couples Therapy

How to Deal with Erectile Dysfunction in a Relationship

Ashleigh Lamberti
April 28, 2025
Couples Therapy
How to Deal with Erectile Dysfunction in a Relationship

When something in your body isn't functioning properly, feeling concerned is normal. But when it causes issues in other areas of your life, like with your partner, it can bring you and that relationship more stress.

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Ashleigh Lamberti, MA, LMFT,

1135 Eugenia Place, Suite E
     Carpinteria, CA 93013

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